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writes: heya i have a BIG problem that is having a massive affect on my life, it is ruining it! im 14 and whenever i hear people talking about sex i feel faint. even if i over hear people talking about it!i hate my sex education class and nearly faint in every lesson! how can i prevent myself from doing so? everyone else seems to be fine about talking about it! Reply to this Question
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reader, Pinky +, writes (24 June 2006):
 You're not a clone of everyone else, you're your own person. Your reactions are unique to you. No one should force their own feelings on you or make you feel that there's anything wrong with how you react. When I was about 12 and 13, reading Judy Blume books like "Forever" gave me a stomachache. You have to deal with things in your own way, in your own time. Just because everyone else thinks of something one way doesn't mean you have to be a sheep and follow the herd. Give yourself the time you need to feel more comfortable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006): This sounds like a psychological problem. Have you tried confronting your high school counsellor about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2006): to martini, this is the same question, i just didnt get answers that would help me much. (im person who wrote question)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2006): This thread sounds 'exactly' the same as this one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-faint-when-i-hear-people-talking.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2006): Just because everyone else is talking about it, it doesn't mean you have the follow them all. It's probably hard when all your mates are talking about it, but not everyone is at the same stage and you won't feel like that forever. It could be a matter of months, weeks or days when you do get interested in it. The best thing to do is not let it bother you, and concentrate on things that you are happy with in your life. Everyone needs to grow at their own pace, and it will come naturally when you get hit with it. Don't try and fake it that you're really interested in it in front of your mates and stuff because this will probably put you off even more. It's a minor worry, that will soon change so don't let it make life hell for you xx :):)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2006): Its not your fault some people have problems adjusting to these things. talking about sex is a very serious thing and your still young and learning dont let it bother you your mind is just getting used to the idea. you will be fine soon i know because the same thing happend to me at ur age.
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