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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hiiiiiiiii :)I'm 15 and a bit of a goth. A lot of guys avoid me because of that and my friends say i act like ' one of the guys '. Is there anyway i can stop being one of the guys?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (31 August 2010):
 I know a girl who used to be a tomboy at that age now she's a swimsuit model but still a tomboy at heart. This is who you are now, but you're going to change your mind and style so many times until you finally find out who you are. Try hanging out with more of your girl friends that are girly and see what they're into and see if you may be more interested in that. Chances are this is just a phase that you will eventually grow out of. For now, happy experimenting!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 August 2010):
Why? You don't have to change to suit other people. Just be yourself. You don't attract the right guy by changing into something you're not. You attract him by being who you are. If you're a bit of a goth, and 'one of the guys', then just be that and the right guy will come along. You don't have to change to suit the right guy.
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