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writes:well... i like someone from work... but... he does drugs.. (Weed) i dont know what to do... he says he likes me and i make him happy... but its the drugs... he doesn't wanna give it up..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): I'm sorry but is he an A**hole when he's high? I realy think early on in a relationship you should start off with more realistic expections like being faithful for starters. If you if you start setting boundaries like stop smokeing weed he will just do it behind your back and then you'll find other trust issues will follow. Look at it like this at least he's not stealing your moms purse so he can go score a crack rock
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reader, AskEve +, writes (9 February 2007):
 Give it a good couple of months then and see for yourself. Ask around and see if anyone can confirm that he's been clean for a while. Watch him yourself if you're out and you see him and judge for yourself.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): trouble with drugs the same with alcholics is that you can say do it for me ... if you love me you would give up ... but it does not work like that they have to want to do it for themselves and noone else .
all that will happen is you will get dragged into the mess of clearing up behind them you need to let them hit rock bottom before they start to make there way back up.
if they do want to clean up there act its going to take along time and plenty of patiences and to do that it will be like you are coming off them urself . dont give up if hes willing too help himself good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell.. he just said he is gonna stop... but i dont know whether to believe him..
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reader, AskEve +, writes (9 February 2007):
If he likes you too then tell him to clean up his act. Tell him you would never date anyone who uses drugs of any description. If he likes you enough he will try and get clean but if the drugs mean more to him then he'll continue to use them.
Until then stay well clear of him, if you don't and become involved you may end up with more problems than you know, worse still, he might even talk you in to trying it yourself telling you it doesn't do you any harm. RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION FROM HIM!!!
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