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writes:I usually read what other people aks and give an honest opinion. This time it's me the one asking what to do. I met my now husbun in 2002, we started living together in 04, had our first child a year later and recently are expecting baby #4 (unplanned and on birth control when I got preggers). Anyway. In the time I've been with him we have had our ups and our downs and I think more downs than ups. I put up with a lot of crap from him and his friends and relatives always tell me that I've got a special place in heaven for putting up with so much of his crap. Every Saturday he goes downstairs with his bother, cousin, and a friend (whom I can care less for) to drink and comes in between 5 and 6am. Sundays he doesn't feel like going out obviously cuz of the hangover. I'm starting to really get stressed out becuase of this. His mom even says that what he's doing things is not right. I feel like talking to his brother and cousin and telling them that I understand they are family and have no committed relationships with anyone but that they do interfere between him and my family and that I feel like I have to compete for attention. I don't remember the last time we went out as a family, let alone spend some quality time. I'm sorry if this has gotten too long but I just needed to vent a little. I hope someone can give me some advise and tell me how to handle the situation or at least let me know that I'm not alone.
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reader, Chicane  +, writes (21 March 2011):
Have you talked to your husband about this? It's not really his brother or cousins fault, unless they're inviting themselves into your home and putting beer down his gullet.
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reader, XXX NASTYBOY +, writes (20 March 2011):
before he goes tell him that if he stays home you two will have sex (trust me im a boy sex alway works.
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