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writes:Hello everyone, Once before I have come to you for advice or answers. Yet again I need more. Forgive me, and thank you.Firstly my husband and I have had many problems in our sex life. He does not last long and I feel as if it is my fault. In the beginning he lasted quite a long time. Now it's very blah. I tried everything I could think of. Dressing up, Talking dirty, starvation from sex it's self, Even watching porn or talking about swapping to threesomes (Things my morels disagree on). What should I do?Nothing has helped at the most I come out very unsatisfied. I would like to point out we are young. I am 19 years of age and so is he. Yes he is my husband I understand the little problem of "OMG your so young" Please ignore that. I would love help with my real issue.Thank you for your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, It's been at lest 5 maybe 6 months this has been happing. We talk everything out. We are a very healthy relationship(other than the sex). We have been together for 5 years and just started to have a sexual relationship 2 years ago. To answer some questions. He use to masturbate a lot so I asked him to stop cause, I too believe it caused some of the problems in bed. It helped for a bit. Only a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): Firstly, it is not your fault.How long has this been happening? few months?it could be because he is under a lot of stress or worry, sometimes he may not be in the mood because of that.Also, bit personal but if he masterbates a lot that could be why he doesn't last long. Does he know how you feel? talk to him he might be able to tell you why or how he's feeling.If theres a chance it could be medical, get him to the doctor. He is young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): honey, don't curse yourself if he doesn't last long,
maybe he's not full of sex so much.
moreover u r just 19, and u r married so you must give it a little time, talk to him, and mak him understand your point of view.
else you can always walk out at last.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): I don't see why you think it is all your fault. Why not ask the doctor for some help? Very often if the sex is not working out, there is something else wrong in the relationship so you need to find out what that is and find the solution together.
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