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writes:I posted earlier but cannot find where it went. I couldn't help myself, after seeing just a few porn websites on my boyfriends history, I searched through the rest of his history and there are literally hundreds of porn sites and google searches for pornographic materials just this week.Is that normal? We have sex multiple times a week but I work full time and study full time and he is unemployed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): Yes, it is something to be worried about. He needs to spend his time on gaining meaningful employment - not rubbing one out - tosser!! You are worried because you have written in; why should you have to work all day why he gets his jollies. Another one handed surfer that should be fired out the door!!!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 Yes it'd normal especially since he's got all that time on his hands (being underemployed) If he spent as much time looking for work as he does rubbing the johnson, he'd be employed and you could sell the computer.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 Yes it's normal, I do the same when downloading anything. It's all about choice, he won't watch them all at once and some will be rubbish. He grabs all the possible choices that are available, and then will watch a few that grab his attention, until he gets bored, and then he'll go through the others or get something new.
When you shop for clothes, go to the library for books, or pick up magazines for wedding dresses or holidays, you do the same... you grab a pile of possibles, then you filter them down to the items you simply must have.
Nothing to be worried about.
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (11 February 2011):
He is just purely filling his time hun whilst being at home... bored is what it is called... where as women will clean the house again etc whilst bored, men just tend to think of the first thing that comes to mind.... sex..
If it worries you, then you need to sit him down and talk to him otherwise it will eat away at you and won't be healthy for your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): Sometimes pornography is just a way of escaping from boredom, just something to amuse oneself with. This is especially likely to be the case if he's unemployed and feels frustrated with too much time on his hands and nothing more productive to accomplish.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (11 February 2011):
 Being horny and bored is a combo that will lead to this exact thing.
Normal? Can't say. Understandable? Absolutely.
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