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female
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41-50,
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writes:hello, my husband has gone away on business for a couple of weeks and the only way we can talk is through msn. he keeps on going on about having cyber sex i`ve herd of it before but i don't no what to do, i need some help can someone tell me what to do and what to say. i`m no good with this type of stuff my friends say tell him what your gonna do to him when he gets back and vise versa but i don`t no what to say to turn him on help. thanks
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reader, missmel34  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Cyber sex is using your imagination to create a sexual experience. It can be the greatest turn on. Think of it as pure foreplay!
There are 2 basic cyber sex scenarios.
1) The descriptive variety, masturbation, whereby you describe what you are doing to yourself, and ask him to do certain things.....you need to be as descriptive as possible, describing sensations.
2) Is the role playing scenario, whereby you describe yourselves as different people and/or different places, like telling a story.
Eg)A good one is to start describing the 2 of you going out to a bar and having a drink, tell him how you begin to run your hand up his leg, you lean over close to his ear and whisper that your not wearing any panties, taking his hand towards you to show him.......bla bla bla, Before you know it the two of you rush out of the bar to have wild sex on the hood of his car.....lol.
Cyber sex is like the two of you writing a story that encaptulates all your sexual fantasies.
Alot of people masturbate while doing this.
It can be incredibly erotic and sensual.
If your partners away, why not begin the "cyber story" around what you are going to do to him when he gets home.
Try to be extremely descriptive, and a bit dirty.
Have fun!
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