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writes:Hello, everyone - I'm interested in knowing, especially from you guys out there (gals may know too), how to seduce a guy I like at work by sending him anonymous email as a start. I'm trying to break a 6-month syndrome of flirting and other non-verbal communication that's been going on between us, and I'd like to try something drastically different to take us to another level of whatever it is that is going on between us. And if there is nothing going on then I want to find this out as well. I'd like it to be an email that would entice any man under any conditions. Can I get some creative replies on this one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWOW!! What an awesome idea but perhaps a bit too seductive for my taste and I'm concerned about the "what ifs" because we're at work. Something with my face on it is a dead giveaway. I can see why your idea would work though, and it's such a good one, and thanks much!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Anon here again. Why don't you ask him who his favourite super model is (i.e. someone he wishes to sleep with in his fantasies!). After he has told you then find a saucy picture of her in a magazine, cut her out and superimpose your head on hers. A day or two later leave this in an envelope on his car window under the wipers. Check his reaction the following day - he may feel awkward around you 'cos he knows you've dropped a major hint that you want to get it on with him. Trust me - this will blow his mind and arouse him muchly! Always best for the man to ask the woman out of course - good for his ego! If you don't like that idea then go for plan B - the e-mail/face-to-face ask out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere is no doubt in my mind that he will "hope" it's from me - that's why I came up with the idea. I need to find out if this guy is just "playing" with me, or if he's just shy and needs a move by me first. His flirtatious ways have caused me to develop an attraction for him, and I need to find out what are his intentions. And if he's just playing with my feelings, I want to say something in an email that will back him off completely - a suggestive email which would also let him know I'm interested.Thanks so much, anon, for your lengthy reply. I welcome anything else you may have to say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): That sounds like a bad idea to me. If the e-mail is anonymous then all of a sudden he will start looking differently at every girl in the office and 'hope' that the e-mail is from a particular woman. This may not be you! So, you may inadvertently cause him to start focusing his attentions away from you on to other women. To avoid this from happening you may wish to drop big clues that this is from you. But then why bother with clues? The working environment is a very grey area - guys talk to girls and girls talk to guys - which is necesssary to get the job done. I'd recommend you simply find a quiet moment with him and ask him out face to face. The key point is for you to do your homework first and try to ascertain whether he treats you differently from the rest of the women. But even then, he will naturally be more at ease with you if he sees you every day vs other women at work who he may not talk with on a daily basis. As I said, all very grey. From a man's perspective therefore I'd recommend the more direct approach (find a quiet moment with him etcetera). I asked a woman out at work recently and she turned me down. I realised after that that the way she was flirting with me was no different to how she flirts with the other guys. But then I found out that she was already seeing another guy in the office who I already suspected - but could not bring myslef to accept that she had actually gone through with this. Suffice to say that they had been working closely together for a number of years and therefore their relationship had grown out of a 'friendship' situation. If you're completely 'comfortable' with each other then you may stand a good chance. Good luck!
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