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How to observe my hymen? Confused!

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Question - (28 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2008)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi all,

I am a 2 virgin and about to get married soon. The problem is, I cannot find my vaginal opening! When I use a mirror to find it, I can see only a pink membrane - maybe the hymen. I'm sure my hymen is not completely closed since my menstrual blood flows out. Please let me know how to find it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008):

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Hi!

Thanks a lot for your response!

Honestly I don't even know what I can see IS my hymen or something else..

I did try to observe again. I noticed a hole in the lower part, but i am not sure if that really is the vaginal opening! I did not notice it before probably coz i did not stretch my legs apart enough. It did not seem to go straight up like you say.

It is kinda small and i wonder how a penis could be inserted in there! Phew!! :)

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (28 August 2008):

Well your vagina is not like an open tube, it is not a cave like your mouth and is tight shut which is why you can't see a hole.

I have no idea what a hymen looks like and I am not even sure if it can be seen if you are not a doctor. It does have a hold in it to let blood out.

Why not try pushing your finger up there, very gently and having an explore. It goes back towards your tail bone and not straight up. You will not cause danage if you are gentle and just use a finger.

Good Luck!! xx

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