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writes: I really like this lad thats in the year above me in school! but i dunno wat 2 do coz ive neva talked 2 him before, he goes to sum of the things i go 2 at lunch times but i dont know how to get to know him please give me some advice Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): i have been in this situation before where i had no idea on how to talk to this boy that i reli like but wen u see him jst say hi or if he says anythin try and get into the conversation and talk to im ok
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2005): To get to know the lad make common friends and get chatting to them and make sure you get yourself noticed by treating yourself to a new hair do and some new clothes and makeover, but dont over do it you dont want scare him off.
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A reader, Danielle, writes (31 January 2005): Well, I'm in exactly the same situation myself! I like the lad, n cant tell if he likes me. All I can suggest is what I have been trying myself - every time you see him, flash him as gorgeous a smile as you can make. I think it might be working for me - I got a smile back today!good luck!!!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (24 January 2005):
 Hi there,The trick is not to pay any attention to the age difference. Smile and ask him about things you have in common. You say that you go to some of the same things, so sit down near him and ask him for his opinion about the places you both go to. Ask him how he got interested in what he does. Listen to his answers and try to draw him out. ("Really? That sounds interesting! How did you do that? What happened then? How did you meet him? What did he say after that?")These are hints for anyone wanting to successfully get to know anyone. People love to talk about themselves and this guy won't even care about a year's difference between you two if you're friendly and confident. Bear in mind that this guy is a normal person and not the god, Adonis, no matter what your personal opinion of him might be. He'll probably be secretly thrilled to have a girl try to talk with him at all!Of course, a small warning is in order: lots of guys in their teens don't talk much. Grunting and shrugging is pretty common in the 13-17 age bracket, so if that happens, you might have to tone down the conversation and not expect too much. Take it slow, try not to dominate the conversation and the next time you're in the same place at the same time, you'll know a bit more about him, so you can ask him about the things you already know.Good luck.
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A reader, Anita, writes (24 January 2005): If you suck his cock - he will know that you like him - if you swallow - you might get married one day... Seriously - talk to the guy!
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