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*ylieBaby03
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and recently started having sex, sadly he has a small penis, and its hard to get pleasure from him, and im tired of faking it.. Any suggestions on how that little thing can create some pleasure? Im desperate :/ haha. Please and and thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): I feel your pain. I've recently gotten involved with a man who is under-endowed as well. He is the sweetest, smartest and most caring man I have ever met and there is no way I am dumping him over such a small thing. For me, I try to prolong foreplay as long as possible so when he does penetrate me, I am ready to explode :) But I definitely know how you feel :)One more thing, be kind! Never make reference to his small size...ever! Men have fragile egos and an unkind or irresponsible word could do him irrepirible damage :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): Give her a break...she is not being pleasured, and is seeking advice on how to make it better. She is not tossing him aside, but trying to make it better. She also does not say HOW small it is. Maybe he has a micropenis (like under 2 inches), and I can see where that may be a problem.
Maybe focus less on his penis and teach him how to give killer oral. The penis is not the only "tool in the box" a guy has, you know. Remember...lesbians get off just fine without a penis at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): Nothing to do with size, as CindyCares explains. Gosh, poor guy his anatomy being scrutinized publically as being too small, when in fact, if YOU had a little more experience and thought more about connecting with him, even IF he was small, meaning under 4 inches when erect, you could still have amazing sex.
SIZE is NOT everything, a man with an eagerness to please, a willingness to learn what turns his partner on, how he expresses himself, how tender he is, how he moves, delivers his magical touch...the WHOLE package IS, that what's counts.
Perhaps read some books on good love making, and what makes it good...and NONE of the advice will be built around the size of a man's penis, it all to do with technique and the connection between the man and woman.
Enjoy practising!
Jilly
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): Im about 6 1/2...and rec'd word from women that confirm and yet say its small...mmm...ive dealt with that insecurity in rather a drastic way let me just say that. anyway, cindy gave some good ideas...and i know cowgirl works well as gravity pushes u down and allows u to control the movement of him in u. Otherwise, yeah tongue and fingers for sure...id try to avoid toys for now as those may offend him. Chances are if ur conscious about it...he is too. Hope this helps.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 October 2010):
 I think yours is more a psychological problem than a factual one , like you miss the visual impact of a large penis. But in practice, only the first anterior third (from the orifice toward the bottom of your vagina) is equipped with nerve endings,- and it is such a short length that any penis will cover it. Girth too should not be a problem, since vaginal elastic walls are very elastic and sort of mould themselves around the object that it's inserted.
So,anatomically speaking, there is no reason why a smaller tool should not be able to satisfy like a larger one. Of course there are positions ,like doggie style, that allow
for deeper penetration- and perhaps he will have to be more forceful and aggressive during penetration if you want the " I'll pound you like a cutlet " effect - just experiment with various rythms and positions until you find
what works for you, regardless of "numbers ". And, anyway,
he could always bring you to orgasm using his fingers and tongue, right ?
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