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36-40,
*evil Crazy
writes:Well, this afternoon me and my friend were discussing about the behavior of girls and young women when it comes to dating and relationships. Both of us agreed on and were indignant towards women with the following attitude and behavior:1). They would request you to be committed2). However, they somehow have the right to date different guys other than you, even though she may already be your significant other3). Some have the 'roving eye' syndrome and love to praise guys in front of you, other than you. They just cannot kick the habit4). Young females who like to somewhat 'toy with' your feelings, meaning they confess their feelings to you, then when you start to develop feelings for her, she starts pulling away and become distant5). Women who adopt the attitude 'I can do whatever I like', with little regard for the guy's feelings, especially to those who actually likes/loves her6). Women who love to play mind gamesApart from staying away from these women, what are the other good ways to deal with them? To me, relationships should be straightforward and frank but these 'little things' are making me feel very frustrated.Any advice would be welcomed. And thanks in advance.Devil Crazy Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): I have a roving eye. I've been in totally obsessively in love with my boyfriend and still checked out every guy that walked by. I never would have gone for any other guys. I just wanted to see what was out there. I was attracted to my boyfriend, but other guys were attractive as well. Who cares? Never cheated never will. Having a the chance to test the waters a bit to realize that you still want who you have more than anyone else makes us appreciate who we have even more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): Sounds like the female equivalent of a player.
I think some women feel what's good for the goose is good for the gander, so they join in the game. Find someone who doesn't play that game, get a 'good' girl, there is plenty of them out there.
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reader, Passthrough  +, writes (5 July 2008):
 I agree, and the tips to deal with them are useful, you know what to look for and then can identify and can then back away.
But I think asking for commitment (#1) isnt a problem, as long as it's the lone member on the list.
I just got through 'dating' a person who was 1,2,3,4,5!! Nightmare, totally... I'm glad I called it off.
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