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writes:Hey,So I've gotten to know this girl more then a year ago, in the first month we've seemed to get really close but nothing ever happened. Never even kissed her.Because of this we have just become best friends. I often get to stay over at her college room for the night, we go to parties together and it seems she even talks to her parents about me. We even tell each other everything about how we're doing with the other sex (whether we're dating someone or not) She even told me about her f*** buddy who she has sex with about once a month.Ever since I had gotten to know her I was in love with her. And I still am now, maybe even more than ever before. It hurts me so much to hear her talk about her f***buddy, like what she likes so much about him.Her girlfriends already asked me before why nothing ever happened between us? because at some parties this particular girl even gets mad at me from time to time when I drink to much or when I'm talking to other girls. This makes me think she might like me as more than a friend. Atleast that's what her girlfriends told me.I might seem desperate but I'm not, I've already had some girlfriends before but none of those relationships lasted longer than 3 months. But this girl is really different, and from time to time I really feel like she wants more aswell.My question is how do I get closer with her?Should I tell her about my feelings for her?In 3 days she's leaving for surf camp and I'm a bit worried. I'm meeting up with her the night before she leaves and I'm really considering just kissing her when saying goodbye. Although this could ruin our friendship aswell in case of rejection. What should I do?Thanks in advance!PS: I'm 19 years old, and still half a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): Hey
I am completely in love with my male best friend but he doesn't know how I feel, I hate him talking about other girls so your friend probably does like you but you need to say to her how you feel because I know from the situation I am in there is nothing I want more than for my friend to say he likes me so I think you should give it a shot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2010): first find out her feelings towards you. she had a sex with a guy. do she love him? and tell her what you feel for her sometimes girl wants boy to make a first move..you said that this girl get mad when you talk with girls may be because she likes you find out her feelings first tell her that you like some girl and observe how she reacts..
Good luck! :)
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