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female
age
26-29,
*crystalxo
writes:Okay so I have had a friend for approx. 5 years and lately, she has really been making me wonder! Okay so let's call her "G" I've always knew G was a bit promiscuous but that never bothered me because that's her lifestyle. She considers me as her best friend and she also has another best friend for 6 years. Her other best friend (let's call her "butter") has very low-confidence. G is very arrogant and has the mentality that she can get any guy on this earth no problem and often puts down Butter. Butter found a guy she's very interested in and now G is making it a personal mission to sabotage this for Butter. She asked me to go to the guys workplace with her so she could make passes at him, following and mentioning him on twitter so that butter will just give up. G has made comments like "why does butter even try? I wont let her have a guy this hot. She can't take care of him" and crap like that. G confessed to me that she has had sex with 2 of her EXTREMELY close friends boyfriends. But she still puts on a front to those 2 friends ..they have no idea. I am a young, secure, and very confident female but all of this has me very on edge. We party together all the time because she's a fun girl and I do not have a boyfriend. G cares about things that go on in my life and we have deep talks but what the hell man?! I am aware if she can do these things with her other friends she is very capable of doing it to me. What should i do with her... should i leave her with her insecurities or talk to her? its hard to leave because we've been friends for quite some time.
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reader, ImAStar888  +, writes (6 December 2012):
Let me start off by saying that G is not the confident girl that she acts like. It's all a front. If she really had any self worth, she wouldn't sleep around like she does or try to sabotage the relationship of another friend. But to answer your question, you can talk to her but if you want to maintain your friendship, don't judge her. Remind her that "she can get any guy she wants" so let Butter have this one. That's about the most you can do without getting caught in the middle, my friend. I hope things work out for you.
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