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writes: Hi there,Me and this guy are friends, we go clubbing together. We ended up in bed together and it was really good. Neither of us wants to have anything serious as I have had a big relationship and so has he also I am thinking of moving abroad soon. I was thinking of asking him to come out with me this wkd, how should I go about this? I don't have anything to lose, he is not really conventional kind of guy and we are both quite open minded. I like him but also know that he isn't someone I would have as my boyfriend.Thanks x
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reader, Dr. Mark  +, writes (19 April 2007):
If you have his phone number, just call him up and tell him you want to see him this weekend. Actually, instead, why not tell him you you want to see him for breakfast on Saturday morning, "...and so could we meet at say around 8 pm on Friday?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): Just ask him. Why are you stressing out over this? If this guy is no big deal to you, and you just have fun together (and sex) you shouldn't give it a second thought. Unless......there's more feelings here than you are admitting to. You say he's not someone you'd have as a boyfriend but you don't say why. Then again, I think he already is your boyfriend. Last time I checked a "male friend" didn't include sexual contact. You already crossed the b/f-g/f line by having sex. However "loose" you want to keep it, is up to you. Have fun.
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