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How long should I wait until I introduce my children to my new boyfriend?

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Question - (16 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2007)
A age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I been dating my Bf 6 months.I went through a bad divorce.I'm know dating and I haven't brought my 3 children into the picture yet.Should I wait a while to introduce my children to him?

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A male reader, pandueddy Namibia +, writes (17 December 2007):

pandueddy agony auntreally in many affairs this comes as a big challege, for sure it is not easy to tell yournew boy friend/girlfriend about your kids but try to relax feel confidentand discuss it with him, some said the erarly the better, I hope if he loves you he will not leave you because of your kids rather he will take them as sons and daughters, all the best!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007):

You didn't state if you think he is the one, or any hopes about a future. Children get attached quickly and can have disabilitating separation anxieties when adults leave and never look back. If you are not sure there is a permanent future with this man leave your kids out of it, until you are.

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A female reader, Full moon temptress1 United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2007):

I think 6mths is sufficent time for you to get to know your boyfriend.So introduce him.Maybe bowling, or over a pizza would be good. Well done you for taking it slowly.

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