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*anadianEagle
writes:Is it ever okay to tell "white" lies in relationships?How would you respond to these questions?Have you ever liked one of your female friends?Have you ever fantasized about being with another girl?Have you ever fantasized about someone else while sleeping with me?Do you ever look at girls online?Do I look fat in these jeans?Is it realistic to NEVER say yes to any of these questions?How do you deal with it if your wife has different expectations than you, and they happen to be very high?Is lying acceptable for some of these questions? Or for any questions ever? Reply to this Question
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reader, CanadianEagle +, writes (31 August 2009):
CanadianEagle is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere is of course more to the story. This question was meant to focus on just this one aspect of it.
She believes that I broke up with her for that month because of the other girl because I already knew the girl. I disagree, but her mind is set....
To see most of the story, I have linked my other question:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-her-but-am-no-longer-in.html
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (31 August 2009):
 Those questions fall under the category of "I've got you now you SOB" or in other words "So have you stopped beating your wife?" Any answer can spell trouble, if asked one of these questions just say you refuse to play that game. As far as your situation, she totally over-reacted and yes you need a lawyer, you have every right to see your daughter.
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reader, CanadianEagle +, writes (31 August 2009):
CanadianEagle is verified as being by the original poster of the questionInteresting...
I looked at girls online during a one month breakup period. And liked another girl too. I lied about it when I got back together with her.
She found some bikini pics in my history a month later... And felt like I was a total liar about everything.... Then I came clean about liking another girl... I now find myself homeless and away from my daughter...
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reader, airn230 +, writes (31 August 2009):
Most women know the truth to these questions. We ask these questions to reassure ourselves. And the answer is yes lie to these questions because it makes us feel good. We like to think that we are the one and only thing that you think about....but in reality we know the answer.
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