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writes:[OP original title]How does your girlfriend decide you are the one she wants to marry?What factors does she base it on.What makes you marriage material for a woman?What makes her want to spend forever with you? Would be interesting to know from the ladies.Thanx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): I cant speak for all women but i knew myself that what i felt within and it was a feeling i had never felt before and i knew then i wanted to spend my life with him,grow old together but sadly he did not feel this way wish he had
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reader, jrunlucky  +, writes (8 August 2010):
 there are a lot of factors to being "the one" for a woman. and for each woman it's different. it all depends on what the person is attracted to like for instance: the bad boy type, the nerdy type, the good personality type. so you cant really pin point who "the one" might be for just any other kind of lady.
usually ladies take into consideration what the guy looks like first. then it's usually the personality. ladies find that if you share their interests and seem to be on the same wave length as them (not in a gay way) that you can be "the one". another thing ladies look for is whether your good with kids, b/c at some point they'll want some.
Ladies also like the types of guys that hold them and take care of them when they're down or hurt. and also Sex. you have to be good at sex. :)
some things that usually girls cant stand in a man would be if they hit girls, if they eat like a 1 year old, and if you yell all the time. some women dont like smokers and druggies. oh and they dont like smart asses. pushy, clingy, manipulative and misogynist. hope that helps ^.^
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): Because she loves you and can't imagine herself being with anyone else.
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reader, OhGetReal +, writes (8 August 2010):
 A woman has to want and be ready to marry, so does a man, first and foremost.
She decides you are the one by the way that you treat her, the kind of character you display, the goals which you have set for yourself and how that fits into her life plan.
A relationship is built on a strong foundation of friendship, and committment is what makes it take fire and last for the long haul. She has to see and hear and feel that committment from you every second every hour of the day before she will follow you anywhere.
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