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writes:Yes, I am a virgin and proud. Dont want to have sex but can someone tell me how it feels the first time and how to masturbate myself scared i might hurt myself and stuff around the house i could use to make even more pleasure. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 If the clitoris doesnt do anything for you then just keep experimenting and you will find something that you enjoy doing every girl is different so you need to take the time out to explore your own body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): Before I ever had sex I used a pillow to masterbate. I would fold it at the ridge to give me something abrasive to rub against my clitoris and ride it back and forth. Sometimes I would remove my clothes and add a mirror for extra stimulation. This seemed to help since I was too uncomfortable to use my fingers. I guess now they actually sell pillows that vibrate too. As far as how it feels all I can say is that it hurts but it does get better the more you do it and if you wait for a partner that cares to go as slow as you need to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): You dont need to penetrate your vagina.
Stuff around the house? If you can sit on a washing machine when its on...
The best way is just to experiment. Avoid the vagina, play with the clitoris at the top, your pussy lips and clitorial hood. Try with one finger to your entire hand (well, 4 fingers together)... try it gently, try it hard (apply pressure), try it up and down, left to right and circle motion... rub words and numbers... etc. and dont forget to use your breasts too... you can always use the spare hand on them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat doesnt do anything for me what else is possible
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (21 October 2010):
Women get most pleasure out of stimulating the clitoris so just work from there it will naturally come to you. As for the first time having sex am not going to lie it can be quite uncomfortable and a little sore and you may bleed but after a few times your body will adapt and it will become more pleasurable.
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