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reader, DrLewis  +, writes (28 June 2009):
you dont tell them :S u just gotta let it go.. see if u were to tell them all it would do is let u down more that is if you know they dont love u back
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): i think u should tell them but i was wondering wat shall i do this girl i fancy is my best mates sister and he says we should get to gether
so i asked her who she likes better ne or my mate and she sed my mate and i was heart broken and then she sed joking but i dont think she kows how much i like her and she says that i ask out every girl in the class wen i dont so wat shall do
if u hav any tips can u e-mail me plz on [email address blocked]
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): some times you hafe to get over it no matter how hard it is and some day you will find some one who likes you for you and not they way you look but how you feel about each other and just do what your heart say not your brian
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Well I think you should just say you really like them
I am trying to tell lucy that I like her but it is hard
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): personally, I think u shud just tell that person how u feel. whats the worse they can say?, 'oh, well I don't feel the same', or maybe, they could say, 'yeah I'm starting to like u 2 what do u think we shud do about it?'
If u tell them and they say 'no' then the gosip will go around for like a couple of days, maybe a week. Nothing lasts for ever!
If they say 'yes' then ur in there heading towards a relationship!
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): i do not know... i am pretty sure i love this one person ther perfect for me and were pretty good freinds but she was always crazy about this one guy who dates practicly every girl in school and doesnt love her at least not as much as me and to hime its just a game but to me its reality and i can hardly cope with it any longer.
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reader, kate1234  +, writes (19 May 2009):
First off, it all depends whether or not you should tell them. There are so many variables to whether or not you should tell a person you love them. For example, does this other person already have a significant other which may lead to endangering yourself if you actually admitted your true feelings?
It's vital that you understand the consequences before you admit to your true feelings. Consider writing a pro/con list before you act.
What is the worst possible scenario? What is the best possible scenario? Can you handle the potential worst outcome? Would you regret it if you never told them? Could you continue dealing with this regret? These are all questions you should consider asking yourself before coming to a decision.
There are many ways to tell a person you love them. That's the easy part. Consider a letter or face-to-face.
No matter how old you are, this is a difficult and very real dilemma that many people face on a daily basis. You are not alone. If worse comes to worse and you cannot cope with your feelings, I recommend visiting a counselor to help you decide.
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reader, Undisclosed  +, writes (8 May 2009):
 You don't. You keep it inside.
Don't fool yourself. It's killing you, not because you want to give your love to her, but because you crave her love in return. If you think - rather you know - the other person doesn't love you back, you don't tell them.
Telling her will hurt more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Love is meant to be two way. You know you aren't going to get it back from her. Consider the consequences of putting your heart out there and it doesn't come back to you.
You will have a lot of people you will find attractive in different ways. Just be careful with whom you share your heart with. Be selective. That way, you'll take care of yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Easy just walk up to them and say "I love you." Then you walk away feeling like a fool. Why tell someone who doesn't love you that you love them? Why not leave it and wait for that special someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): It depends on ur situation u know if that person if ur bf or gf or if that person is just ur friend.
Usually it's better to just put it out there but you're young you know u probably just have a crush on them. Love can't be undestood at such a young age. You could write it out or just simply tell the person that you think ur feelings might be more than just a friendship or past like.
But don't be surprised if she doesn't feel the same way like i said ur young ull meet other girls and don't have sex.
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hope it helps.
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