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How do you make out?? I'm worried about my inexperience...

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Question - (1 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2008)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

this is embarrasing, if not awkward but i have to ask...

how do you make out?

is it awkward for first time?

im scared of his experience and my inexperience.

i dont want sites to go and explain it i want someone to explain it for me in as much detail as posible.

it will be much appreciated.

oh and how can i get myself confident and not scared about first kiss? i have had the opportunitie but i get butterflies and chicken out... please help thanx

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A female reader, centralbabe5678 United States +, writes (9 July 2008):

centralbabe5678 agony auntoh first make out

:)

mine was not gross like people say it is

just dont be scared and quit all of a sudden

if he starts choking you then gently pull away

be adventurous though dont hold back but dont come on

to strong. make him believe that you've done this before

its what i had to do :)

goodluckk,

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you for your answers so far

and yes stauffera91 i am just like you were, when was your first kiss?

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A female reader, stauffera91 United States +, writes (1 July 2008):

stauffera91 agony auntokay awesome advise from the person above... when i was around thirteen and twelve i was asking myself the same questions... all of my other friends had made out and i was the last of our group! it really sucked.. i was probably just like you i looked on tons of websites and kept replaying makeout scenes in movies... and when my time finally came i was too dang nervous to even react!... he just kinda slid his tounge in and i had no idea what to do it was so embarrassing... if its even possible i messed up! lol ... But after a few more times its a piece of cake! just dont be like me, dont get all nervous and freak out and if he does happen to put his tounge in your mouth just move yours around his and go along with it! you will be fine good luck girl!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008):

Ok, the first big rule is to relax. Since he's experienced, let him kiss you first. Just go with the flow and DON'T try to overthink how you're kissing or how you should kiss. Remember to stay relaxed. If he does something, try to emulate it. Don't get too scared of kissing bad, that will probable make it happen!

Also, make him respect your body. Don't throw yourself at him so easily or he will not appreciate you. Take things slowly when you make out and I hope you have a good time

good luck with your first kiss!

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