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How do you know whether she's just being nice or if she really does like me?

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Question - (24 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How do you know whether she's just being nice or if she really does like me? I started work somewhere new last october, never really spoke to this woman, well I call her a woman she divorced got two kids and I think is 40 and I'm 21, but anyway never really had a lot to do with her. We talked more and more and now there seems to be something there. I never really noticed before cos my girlfriend broke up with me last year and I still love her so I sort of never looked at another woman. Just lately though she always laughs at my stupid lame jokes, smiles at me and everytime she walks by she looks in at me. She said once I'm always good to her and I thought ok do you like me or are you being nice? Trouble is she been married so can she be a lesbian even though she been married? I'm gay but no one there knows I am, she presumes I had a boyfriend before. She complimented me the other day and said I looked good like I had lost weight. Does this mean she likes me or is she just being friendly?

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A female reader, Cupidexpert United States +, writes (25 April 2010):

She's being nice. Sorry.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010):

I am straight as can be.I compliment my female friends too.She sounds like she's just being friendly.

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A female reader, Jesc United States +, writes (24 April 2010):

Jesc agony auntI think she likes you, but I wouldn't jump to asking her that.

If you are interested in her you two should go out for a few drinks to talk. See if she want's you as a friend or something more.

To me it looks as if she is interested in you. Women, and Men, can be gay through out marriage and even after. Now if you want something serious I would suggest to try to stay distance on making a move on her, She might want like "Hmm men didn't work I wonder if women will?" You should just take your time on it.

Age doesn't matter, I would go with older people due to the fact they knew more and the maturity.

I hope this help I just wanted to point out what all could be there. (From what I read).

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