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confusedsoul
writes:When you are in a relationship with someone, say with a friend, brother, sister, parent, uncle etc. does it imply that your destiny is tied to that of other people? Is it your duty to have these people control a part of your destiny so that it gets aligned with their own imaginations about their life in future, ambitions, dreams and destinies? Are you guilty if your destiny does not make others realize their own expectations from you? Some of them use pressure, coercion to control others whom they regard as a person to who could help them with their own interests. How to deal with such people?
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reader, confusedsoul +, writes (28 April 2007):
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reader, ariel  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 With awareness,understanding and honesty.If you are aware what the person is doing and understand why they are doing it,then with honesty you will be able to communicate how you feel.You can only be coerced if you allow the person to do so.Everyone has FREE WILL,what you do with it is up to you......Only you are the master of your destiny. Guilt is another thing entirely...What is it?The little voice that nags you when you do something that others frown upon or a feeling that you are describing when others want their own way.You would have to listen to your heart and understand why to know what direction it is you want to follow.All you have to remember is that you and you only are the one incharge of your destiny.......Its all about choice and free will.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 Okay, What?
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