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anonymous
writes:My fiance believes that keeping in contact with all of his exes, even as far as going and seeing them in different states, does not mean he is disrespectful to me. I have asked him why he does it and he says, because he wants to stay friends with them. I keep telling him friends don't have sex with friends to keep the friendship. He has admitted to doing it and wanting to continue to do it, saying it does not affect how he feels about us. My head says leave fast, my heart says he will figure out what we have is more important then his penis. I am 44 and he is 49. We live together, just bought a new house, have a business together, and there are kids involved. How does one learn to turn the other cheek and just ignore this behaviour?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): he has already shown you exactly who he puts first.himself and his d@@k.how much more proof do you need honestly?do you want to wait until he gives you a disease or brings more innocent kids(victims)into the world?what a selfish abhorant man.i dont know how you can bear to be in the same room as him let alone a relationship?the question you are asking is how to you learn to turn the other cheek?how does anyone learn to accept this intolerable situation?learning to accept someones infidelities and bad treatment of you is not something that should be taught in anyones language.please darling for your sake,sanity and future get out now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): there is only one reason why any guy would want to be friends with his x`s and thats because he can run to them if you and him split up,but they also must be single as i doubt very much that they`d want to ruin their relationship just to be friends with an x,this guy is a player and i wouldn`t trust him
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reader, eddie  +, writes (6 April 2007):
 One doesn't turn the cheek to this kid of behaviour.....One turns the paper work over to the lawyer and gets out of sauch a ridiculous relationship. Period !! Tell him you're going to have sex with some old boyfriends and see how he likes it. Reassure him though it doesn't mean you love him less.
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