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30-35,
*an01462
writes:hi im 17 years old and not the most confident of guys. i have liked this girl now for 5 months and have not pluked up the courage to talk to her. we have been texting etc for the past few weeks and have arranged to go out. but every time i try to arange something she is busy. i am unsure weather she is indicating that she dosent want to come but just wants to let me down gently. also last week i found out that she was seeing someone nothing serious just spending time. i text her about it and then she said she didnt even know i liked her :s which i found confusing because i thought i made it obvious. what i want to know is how do i tell her exactly what i feel about her which is im crazy about her. shes beautiful and lovely. but i want to do this withought weirding her out because we dont know eachother very well. i would apreciate any help you could give me thanks .
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reader, EveryLittleHelps +, writes (31 January 2010):
I think you have summed this question up very well for yourself. "The Girl Of Your Dreams" you know any girl would be over the moon to hear that and would have the upmost respect for the boy that said it to her. You're scared of rejection, but how will you know if you never try? Maybe she is only seeing this other oy because she is wanting to hear what you are scared to tell her. Go for it, she'd be lucky to have you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): I think you're just gonna have to be direct, tell her you like her in a romantic sense and ask her out on a proper date. I've tried 'hinting' my attraction towards certain girls in the past. Some of my actions and words seemed very forward and I was convinced the girl in question knew I was indicating that I fancied her. She never did. Oh, everyone else could see it, but she was oblivious. Some people just don't pick up on signals very well. You'll just have to let shyness/embarrassment be damned and make a move before it's too late.
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