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writes:Hey, this is going to be a little awkward. Currently I'm going out with a girl a year or so younger than me- the first girl I've dated- and have been for nearly a year now. We sleep together regularly and enjoy it, but somehow I don't think I'm satisfied with sex between two girls on the whole...In the past I've dated a few guys, but I've never actually had sex with any of them, so I'm somewhat of a virgin, and am still attracted to men, especially the idea of having sex with a guy. I think admitting this to my girlfriend would break her heart so I haven't said anything, but it's not easy to ignore. It's not like I want to go out with someone else, but I do want something more.I'd opt for sex toys to fill that phallus-shaped void but she's just under 18 (and I'm just over that age) and I don't feel like it'd be right to ask her to try anything like that, especially as she doesn't like men herself. But I can't think of a better alternative.So, what should I do? Am I being too strict regarding age limits and sexual experience?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (20 September 2010):
 To start with i think it is brilliant that you are taking your girlfriends age into consideration when considering sexual actuvities, this shows that you care about her and also that you consider her feelings which is a great start. I dont think it is as simple as you need and boyfriend not a girlfriend, you clearly care about this girl and i hope you dont want to hurt her. It is normal to want or wonder what it is like to exprerience things that you have never tried in this case penatration.
If you want to stay with this girl and you are happy with her, then i think bringing up the issue of sex toys with your girlfriend in a light hearted way to start with to see how she reacts and then take it from there, as you are in a loving relationship and your firlfriend is not a young age i do not think it would be wrong of you to do this.
I hope this helps =]
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