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How do I tell my cousin I love him?

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Question - (7 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *nperfectAlexis writes:

Ok If i tell him i love me how do i know it wont ruin everything? i love my cousin. yes he is blood but he is always there for me and whenever hes around i just smile. when we were little he kissed me but he dosent remember. i still love him how do i tell him?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011):

well i've been in that situation before. I was on the receving end like your cousin will be if you tell him, what helped is she was open and put everything on the table when she told me. i felt the same, but their was someone else in my life so yeah. before you tell him just be shure hes not seeing anyone, if not just be nice to him get away from your family sit down to have a chat.when talking slowly pry the discussion in the direction of how you feel be honest to him and just put your heart on the table for him. if he also loves you the way you love him things will be fine.

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A female reader, b90219 United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

You just need to come out and tell it to him straight, if he loves you, he will understand.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011):

I live in the USA an I'm happily married to my cousin and have a beautiful 5 years old boy. These people amaze me, how in the US the same sex marriage is not weird but marriage between cousins, with 2 different parents, is weird? Go for him if you are in love with him.

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A female reader, nester United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

please do not tell him that you have feelings for him in that way because it will only make this worse for you in the long run. Let it go and move on.

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