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He used to be so great, now he's verbally abusive

Q.   I have been with my husband for 7 yrs, married 1. He use to b so caring and loving and generous. Now he is verbally abusive and use to hit me but that stopped. We never have fun or talk or even laugh anymore unless its at each other:( he won't ...

A.   19 April 2011: get the f away from this asshole because you are worth something. if you cant do it for yourself then do for the kids. they don,t need to be around him when he acts like a big shot calling you names pushing you around. just get him out of your life ... (read in full...)

My Husband Cheated on me, what should I do?

Q.   So I am 22 years old and i have been married for 2 years with my husband for 4. We have a beautiful 8 month old daughter. Everything was great until Sunday morning. We live in a five bedroom house so we rent some of the rooms out to friends. We had ...

A.   12 April 2011: first of all your husband and your best friend are full of shit. he knew what he was doing drunk or not. and how do you even know if that,s not really his baby your so called best friend is having. you need to wake up and realize that this has been ... (read in full...)

I am upset with my cousin for not telling me she was pregnant before we had unprotected sex!

Q.   This is so wrong. i have been seeing my cousin for the past seventeen years, although we have both moved on and got married to our loved ones, ever chance we get like in family gatherings we still have sex. my wife is now not in town, i was with my ...

A.   12 April 2011: what is wrong with you.first of all you should not be having sex with your cousin ever.2 i would not be telling people that you don,t even know about any of this. i think that you and your cousin need help. and if i was your wife and found out about ... (read in full...)

He lied about his age, should I see him again?

Q.   Ok I got know this guy over the phone, we talk everyday and text. recently went on a date with him and found out he lied about his age. Turns out he is 9 yrs older tha me, there were a few other little things that I didnt really like, but these ...

A.   11 April 2011: If he lied about his age then what makes you think that he wont about anything else. so just forget about this one and move on.... (read in full...)

Will the fact that I am dating his ex ruin our friendship?

Q.   Hi, okay, I am stuck in a love triangle with my best friend's ex.. They were together for about 2 years, and half of that time we secretly had a crush on one another. Now that they have broken up(only recently) we have completely fallen in love. It ...

A.   11 April 2011: If you say that your in love with this girl and the two of you really want to be together then i say go for it.however what about your best friend.I,m not sure how your going to tell him unless you just come right out and say hey by the way i,m ... (read in full...)

How will know true love?

Q.   how will know true love?...

A.   11 April 2011: How will you know well nobody really knows for sure.until the right person comes along and the two of you look into each others eyes. then you will know because you will feel the love in your heart.... (read in full...)

I don't think we are ready for sex

Q.   So me and my boyfriend are going away for a weekend I heard him talk about having sex with me to his friends but I don't mind I think we are ready. Thing is he has had sex before and I'm still a virgin, what if I'm not good enough, what if his first ...

A.   11 April 2011: If you are not ready to have sex with your boyfriend then you should not be going away for the weekend.and Another reason is that if he had any kind of respect for you what so ever he would not be telling his friends anything at all. so you need to ... (read in full...)

I'm gay and I think my cousin is Bi. Should I tell him how I feel about him?

Q.   Hi guys, this is my first time writing down a question in the site. ^^ Here goes..and this could be kinda long. I'm an 18 year old gay male, and..I have this cousin that I 'think' I like. We grew up together with this cousin of mine since thi...

A.   10 April 2011: Not a good idea because first of all he is family #2 another thing is that he might not even be bi. and even if he was why would you even think that you are the person he wants to be with . So please please do not tell him anything . or say you do ... (read in full...)

We're 14, are we old enough to have sex?

Q.   hello, this is a pretty long question but it would be great if i could have your honest opinions, i'm 14 and i've been with my boyfriend who is also 14 for about ten months. we're very close and he's like my best friend as well as my boyfrien...

A.   10 April 2011: No you are not ready for sex at all. so don,t even think about it because first of all you are only 14 and anything can happen you may think you know everything but you don,t.just think about what if you got pregnant by this guy and you tell him he ... (read in full...)

My dads porn addiction is hurting our family!

Q.   A little back story: My mom and I are very close, so we talk to each other like friends often. Because of that, I know a lot about her and my dad's relationship. My dad has been experiencing some Erectile Dysfunction issues over the past two...

A.   10 April 2011: I really don,t know what to tell you i,m sorry that your dad has problem with porn. however you are asking the wrong people for this kind of ed vice you should be asking a doctor or maybe you should ask your dad to get counseling and even go with ... (read in full...)

He's my ex and wants to have sex. I want to do it, or at least say that he asked me, out of spite. Should I?

Q.   So why did this boy "J" text me yesterday asking me if we still can have sex. When he has just broken up with me and is now going with another girl... a part of me wants to just have sex with him just to try and get back at her by telling her.... ...

A.   8 April 2011: It will never work if he is with another girl let it go and forget about him trust me i know what your going through because i have been in your shoes before. And i know how hard it is when you love someone and want to be with that person but you ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my cousin I love him?

Q.   Ok If i tell him i love me how do i know it wont ruin everything? i love my cousin. yes he is blood but he is always there for me and whenever hes around i just smile. when we were little he kissed me but he dosent remember. i still love him how do ...

A.   8 April 2011: please do not tell him that you have feelings for him in that way because it will only make this worse for you in the long run. Let it go and move on. ... (read in full...)

He is very romantic around me except when his friends are around. How do I deal with the mixed messages?

Q.   Any advice please? I have been seeing this guy for the last 4 weeks. He is really really shy when we go out and his friends are there. He said he feels he will be judged by them. I know he has a lot going on at home. On occasions he goes funny wh...

A.   8 April 2011: If the guy you are with is treating you like that then it is time to move on. ... (read in full...)

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