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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for give or take 7 months. Ok so, I moved into my own place a couple of months ago. For the past month, he has been sleeping over almost every night. Also for the past month, he has been laid off of work. I wake up really early in the morning, and go to work. He stays in bed. Sometimes, when I get home - he is still at my house. And sometimes I have the night to myself, but he still makes his way over at midnight and crawls into bed. I love him, and I love his company. But I feel a little invaded and I feel like I still need my own space. He comes over and puts his laundry in, showers, etc. I don't know how to bring it up. He has his own house, it is half an hour away up a hill. I know if I want a solo night I just have to tell him. But I just feel like why don't you do certain things at your house why do you have to do them at my house? I don't know if this makes sense but I am just feeling irritated and I don't know how to go about bringing it up or even how to say what I am trying to say. I feel smothered!
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (15 March 2011):
 Just say look, I love you and I'm not going anywhere but this is the first time I have ever been on my own, in my own place and I need a little time and space to enjoy it. I hope you understand.
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