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How do I stop comparing myself to others?

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Question - (20 March 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

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sometimes I just keep comparing myself to others, I think I'm not popular enough, i don't have as much friends as they do etc. I'm trying to think positively, but I always find myself comparing myself, and its hard to stop. It does make me feel down, what can I do about it?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2006):

just be your self and god made you that way for a reason every one is special in their own way just be you and stop trying to be others.

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2006):

willywombat agony auntThis is difficult and is to do with your personality type. Often very insecure people have a need to *people-please* and this is just a form of that. If you sit back and look at the situations in which you do this and figure out what triggers it off then you may have a chance of working thru it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2006):

Just dont care about what people think about you. When you care what people think about you it makes you self concious and insecure. Just do whatever you want to do, and live a carefree lifestyle. When people see that you dont care what others think they will think your cool and come to you. so just be free

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