New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244973 questions, 1084332 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

How do I soften that I don't want to be in relationship?

Tagged as: Friends<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (29 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2010)
A female Hong Kong age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear readers, what if one day a guy you have a good feeling for him comes and confesses that he likes you what would you do?

In case if the relationship can't be happened what should I say?

If I say " I have a good feeling for you too but I don't think I'm ready to have a relationship with anybody right now" will it hurt him much?

Cuz that is the fact. I don't know the other way to make it any softer.

Or you have any advice for me? Please do and thank you forward.

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (29 November 2010):

petina1 agony auntJust let him know that you appreciate his friendship but at the moment you arent looking for anything else. If you don't say anything at all to him he will probably be a nuisance to you and eventually the words you do say to him may not be very nice. So on a nice note I'd just suggest you tell him the truth of how you feel about it.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (29 November 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntWhat you typed is probably as gentle as it gets. I am sure he will understand, if he doesn't, he probably is not ready for a relationship anyway.

I hope that helps.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "How do I soften that I don't want to be in relationship?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312494999961928!