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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey..Okay well I really need help, I am Inlove with this guy, and have been for a while now, we dated before, but we broke up because I keep making these stupid mistakes, I thought he didnt care about me, I always called myself fat and ugly, and he hated that, He also thought I didnt support him in the languages he learns and his gaming I sucked at telling guys no, if they say send me a pic.. I did, and I always forgave people who didnt deserve it, guys always try flirt with me and kiss me and stuff, and he says I just go along with it.. But now I have changed, if guys do try flirt with me and stuff I stick up for myself, and dont go along with it, I dont call myself fat and ugly anymore,I also am willing to support him with anything, Play computer with him, and he can teach me his languages, I really want him. and i am meeting him at the movies with some friends and he wants to see that I have changed and doo still care about him alot.. How should I show him that this is true??. If I dont prove to him he wont believe me.. Please help.. I love him so much xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2011): You don't show him OP. He'll see it for himself if those things are true.
We can all say we've changed and we can all make an effort but the proof of change is actually just seeing it and seeing it in the long term too.
It's quite easy to change things for a while to get someone back but most people just revert to the way they were after a while once they have that person back.
The only way he'll know you have changed is after he sees this for himself over a good bit of time.
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