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writes:My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We recently broke up just 2 weeks ago because we decided we were bickering too much. It wasn't a bad break up, it went well although I wanted to work it out and he felt it wouldnt be able to be fixed. But at the end of the break up he said that he hopes we can get together for lunch or something. before summer is over. SO i told him to just contact me and we'll see. I ended up texting him about 5 days after we broke up just saying hi how are you and we went back and forth then I said i miss you and he got defensive and we ended the convo. I know that it may have been too soon to do that and I want to work it our with him. I want to contact him and tell him how I feel and I want a chance to prove to him that we can work it out because I know that we can fix this! and I miss him so much but people are telling me to wait until he contacts me. Should I wait until he talks to me for lunch or something and give him space? What do guys usually want a girl to do? Btw, we have broken up once before and we didnt talk for about a month and then started being friends and got back together because we worked everything out and he realized how much he loves me. How do I prove to him that this situation can be worked out too!?I don't understand why so many people are telling me not to talk to him and wait for him to come to you and that if i talk to him i'm making myself look needy and he won't like that. I really want to know what guys think and what they would want/do in a situation like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): hello, I think you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel and ask him if you guys can try and patch things up and talk about it, try to work it out. He might feel the smae way and maybe he waiting for YOU to talk to him. good luck :]
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