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writes:i am in involved in a serious relationship with a guy who is so crazy about me for a year and i want this relationship to last for ever. so far i have not seen him doing something that really hurt me but he always does good to me. i need some help,how do i keep him by my side? i am really crazy about him too but i do not think he sees that,how do i show my craziness? i truly do not want to loose him,what must i do to keep him by my side? Reply to this Question
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reader, Leah123  +, writes (12 September 2009):
Hey, what is your problem exactly :)? You are with a guy who is crazy in love with you and you love him back! You shouldn't worry so much about the future. Love is about the little everyday things, the ones that show how much the person means to you. Leave small presents in the house or his car, or a nice picture of you under his pillow, treat him to a nice meal, say something really nice out of the blue etc... small gestures can go a long way...also, if you want to keep him forever, remember you both had a life before you met. Make sure you leave yourselves personal space so you can miss each other a bit :) oh, and never ever belittle him in public or call him pet names. Don't forget to respect each other. I wish you a very happy life with your bloke!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): There is no such guarantee to NEVER lose anything in this world. If something has intelligence and the capability of emotion, coupled with growth, change and the ability to learn, upgrade, rid excess, gain understanding, then this same thing (person) will gain the ability to make a choice that counters your own desires. Any living mind should eventually change. Those that don't, only invite a downward spiral of dimwit, dullness and vacancy. However, if you could find out the 'secret' in controlling him like a robot, programmed to do your bidding, then is may be possible to have him stay by your side forever. Be warned though, he would no longer be a human being with free will. =====Some words to go by, that you may unfortunately, never comprehend: maturity, growth, upgrade, perception, learn, understanding, filtering, perception, ease of flow...The day or night you must dominate another person without the mutual respect for the sake of your own happiness, is the day that relationship no longer holds further meaning.
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