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How do I let go of someone that I love with my all heart dispite all the hurt he has put me through?

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Question - (13 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2009)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone!

Need some advice:

How do i let go of someone that i love with my all heart dispite all the hurtt he has put me through?

Some people in my shoes will get over a cheating boyfriend but i still find a place in my heart to forgive him. Is there something wrong with me? Another question at what age can i consider getting married? I'm under 22.

Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009):

No there is nothing wrong with you, it takes time to let go of someone you love that has hurt you and forgiveness is the first step to repairing the damage he has done to you. Forgiving him will help you to move on and will help to prevent feelings of bitterness. It helps if you cut off contact with him, it's very hard to get over someone when you still see them regularly.

You can consider getting married at any age that feels right for you. There is no set age that you "should" be to get married, you are an adult now and capable of making that choice.

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