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writes: Okay - so I've been dating this guy since July. The sex is amazing and we connect so well. The only problem, although he always makes me feel amazing and makes me crazy wet --- how do I know if I actaully had an orgsam? He asked me the other night if I had one, I told him that I didn't - he was very dissappointed and wanted to get me to have one.... Should I have an orgsam each time? Or is it a hit and miss thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): If you had an orgasm, you would know. If you two are just having penetrative sex, that could be the problem, a lot of women cannot orgasm off that alone. you should try oral if you havent already (that usually works) or the thing that really works for me is having my husband have sex with me with a sex toy (dildo, or vibrator) while I massage my clitoris with my fingers, or he does both : )Or you can try being on top when you have sex with him, that works for me sometimes. hope that helps
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (2 December 2008):
 If you had an orgasm, I'm pretty sure you'd know about it ;) Some women have a harder time reaching orgasm than others. Is he stimulating your clitoris with his fingers or just having sex with you? There are many women who can't come through vaginal intercourse alone and you may be one of them. If he isn't touching you down there, try getting him to do so, and if he has been, try getting him to switch up his technique. Good luck =]
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