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*allinlove
writes:Ok here goes. I been datin my boyfriend sense I was 18 there is an age differnce he was 23, we last 6month but fastin forward he was datin a girl for 3 years they had there problems n he splet wit his friend n now has a 4month old baby. I been back in his life sense oct of 08 now we are a couple I'm happy to be with him. He say he fallin in love wit me. But how do u know he not lieing r jus sayin that to make me feel good? How do I know if he cheatin on me? How do I no if he wants to marry me? I'm ready for all of it. I'm 25 n he 30 help please Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): You begin by using complete words so that the average person has an idea what you're saying. This is not text message on a phone or AIM.
It sounds like there is hardly any trust in this relationship so you ask yourself.. if you suspect that he's cheatcing on you becuase he the type to do so and if you don't know if he lyeing about a feeling/word that should certainly not be lied about or thrown around as if a ball, then is this someone who you should really be with?
And if he's given you no reason to suspect any of these things and you're simply paranoid, then i suggest learning to trust him before you drive him away. Don't throw your heart out there if you're not ready. Don't tell him you love him if you don't, and he will not tell you he loves you if he doesn't.
Give him time on the marraige thing. It will probably be a while for him to start dropping hints like those.
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