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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfreind for 4 yrs broken up for some short times but we always manage to work it out.i love him and he wants to get married how do i know hes for real and he has cheated before but i got thru it, one of my good freinds says once acheater always one and i dont know how to tell if he is changed and ready to commit to just me?and at the age of 22 Reply to this Question
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reader, asian tealeaf  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 once hes cheated, either u place blind trust in his word, or always question him. as the saying goes, once a cheater always one, and trick me once shame on u, trick me twice shame on me! so..ultimately, the choice is urs. in my belief, once u forgave him, u basically let him win, if not, get away with his actions. theres no excuse, none whatsoever, to cheat. whether its arguments, lack of sex, unhappy, whatever, it does not matter. he was guilty the moment he stuck his dick in her. ur young, id move on to greener pastures as u still have much in life to give to a man who WILL treat u right. and he can grieve over his actions and hopefully never commit the offense to another girl.
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