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writes:Hello everyone Im wondering how to keep my man interested in me Im 31 and he is 23 Im afriad that he will soon lose interest and leave as Im 8 years older than him what can I do to help him stay interested ??the sex is great (every night)and we have been together for 3 years but Im starting to get more worried as I get older can anyone put my mind at ease please. if I havent givin enough info let me know. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2009): okay it depends on what you guys feel for each other,many people might say it wont work but i feel your life and relationship is what you want them to be. so if you really work hard and try to love him and make him see if he loses you he is making a mistake then this might work you know. you might not be the youngest or pretiest but i believe you have what others dont, so hang in there it will work.
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reader, PC 8  +, writes (3 November 2008):
anonymous,Hi About your question, it depend on your agreement with him at the initial time, if your agreement with him is for marriage then wait for him. Well is not all friendship that lead to marriage. I don't think it will work, beco your age is higher than his, as time goes on he may leave you for another person who is attractive and fresh. Better look for your man now before is too late. Don't be hurt with my answer please.!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): Im a 30yr old female and in a relationship with a 41yr old. age does not matter provided you have the same interests and I'd have to agree maturity levels. If you have confidence in yourslef you should not question the age difference. Be confident, he wouldnt have been attracted to you in the first place if the age difference was a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): I'm 32 and have dated men from age 21 through 36. The old saying age doesn't really matter is true. It's the difference in maturity level that really matters. If you have common interests,emotional attraction and have fun together then age won't be the problem.
The age problems usually come when the younger one doesn't have much life experience. Not sexual experience but life experience. Without this it will be hard to hold any meaningful conversation in which then you'll both get bored over time. Don't know why I'm giving advice. I'm 32 and still single. hahaha Hope this helps though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust to make things CLEAR Blakforst I dont GIVE him sex every night we BOTH enjoy our sex and if I dont want to do it then I dont do it!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): It's not about what you do to keep him interested.
Why do you want to be with a guy who is just "interested"? Why not love instead?
You don't buy love, honey. It's just there, if it's suppose to be there.
If you're depending on giving him sex every single night just to keep him interested, then really, you're degrading yourself. It's got to be alot more than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): If he's having sex with you every night, then chances are he's quite satisfied for the time being.
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reader, Bean317  +, writes (22 March 2008):
Don't worry...if you worry about things and look for a reason to not be "good enough" then you'll create one. I'm assuming the two of you are pretty serious after 3 years. Do you guys talk about the future, marriage? Has he been showing signs of not being interested? It doesn't sound like it. To me it sounds like you're questioning the age difference as you get older...3 years and a loving relationship show for something. "Don't fix it if its not broken"
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