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writes:I'm 47 and my husband is 45. He took leave from his job yesterday in disgust along with 2 other colleagues, after hearing some other colleagues laughing and joking about "let's cause another Enron scandal".My husband is worried that another Enron scandal may just happen at where he works, how can I prevent him worrying about thisalso, does anyone remember it at the time?How can I help him relax more?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009): while you are helping him get rid of his tension, he has a fiduciary duty to blow the whistle on "apparent" corruption. yes, whistleblowers are at risk but where i work we have an anon tip off line where employees/ concerned citizens can report suspicions without being identifed/verified.we have all learn from the enron scandal, more have cropped up and the world waits for another corporate to be named and shamed. what i can tell you is that staff at the disgraced company were too scared to even put their employers details on their cv. they were not hired and rightly so. best thing, your hb must try to find alternative employment. FAST. with the economic crises, ponzi schemes nightmare, and unethical bosses, another scandal is looming.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009): Number 1 best solution for taking his mind off his problems... seduce him and take your pleasure from him. Go all out and make it a memorable night.
Men (I hear) get a very big ego boost from great sex and if he knows everything is great on the homefront... it might take a big burden off him.
Also, try not to offer your opinions right now, unless he asks. Let him vent if he wants, but show him you have confidence in him... so that means he doesn't need your solutions or help. If you feel like you just got to do something, drag him off to the bedroom to entertain you.
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 Be kind to him and help him find suitable employment. Take the time to care for him and spend more time giving him support, affection and talking to him.
As far as Enron, it was a scam in the US. People went to prison, balance sheets were faked; bankruptcies followed.
It was like the BCCI thing back in the 1990's. Same difference. A company got huge, people lied, investors got ripped off, retirement funds disappeared. It was a house of cards.
I hope your husband wasn't in charge of any of the wizardry over there that led to the cooked books.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009): Oh yes, I definitely remember Enron. Let's hope your husband is working for a real company, a going concern, and not a scheme like that.
Can you take time off yourself? If so, perhaps you could do a nice inexpensive little vacation. A driving trip or some such thing?
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