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writes:Hi!!!I really need your help! I ma in a relationship. i am gay. I've been in this relationship for almost a year, the guy lives with me. we have a 6 year difference in age, he is younger than me, so i feel he is still a bit immature.I really love him. But we have our differences and that makes us fight all the time! We fight about stuff in and around the house, friends, likes and dislikes! We almost disagree about everything! I've met another guy who makes me feel so special! We agree about everything me and my boyfriend differs about. we connect. we share interests and love of music,nature etc. only problem is that the guy is still confused, have not been in a gay relationship before,but really want to be.his parents doesnt know etc. my bf actually told his parents before moving in with me. i dont want to hurt my bf,but this other guy makes me sooo happy!!!! i cant stop thinking of him, every second of the day! what do I do!!! he is also my age. how do i not think about him, how do i handle things with him and my bf????i am beyond confused!!!! please please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): Thanks Rob! It is just not easy for me! I looked at him (my bf) last night again and I felt so sorry for him, I felt my love for him again and the part telling me that I dont want to hurt him, that I love him too much to hurt him!!! But he is suspicious and ignoring me. i cant handle the atmosphere. I really love him! CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Bobito  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Darling. If you love your bf, then you don't want to lie to him, do you? Give him a chance and tell him what's going on. If he's mature enough he'll try and make things work out. Then you will know whether you want to stay with him or with the other guy. It's never easy to break up with someone, but it's a necessary step towards long term happiness.
Good luck,
Rob
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