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writes:Please anyone got any advice?I am really confused, there is this man I like and after my friend told him I liked him he took me out one night. We had a really good night, got on really well and had a real laugh.He never tried anything on all night and we went back to his and chatted and listened to music until 4 in the morning.I see him as he lives near me, he brought a parcel round to my house the other day and came in for a chat but my friend was there aswell So he never asked me out again. If i see him in his car he always stops to chat but the problem is he has not asked me out since we went out last weekend. Ive played it cool and not approached him or asked him out but I do really want to go out with him again. He says he doesnt like pushy women, I dont know what to do or if he even likes me like that, my friend says he smiles all the time when he sees me and gets a bit nervous around me. Any advice please??? Reply to this Question
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 im pretty sure he's too shy to ask you out again, but he really wants to. ugh, i'm in that predicament, .. i'm sure he'd be happy if you did what tasteofindia just said
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (24 March 2007):
 There's a difference between a pushy woman and a woman who shows interest in a man. I don't think he'll get horibly offended if you go up to him and say, "hey, I really liked hanging out with you the other night. I'd love to do it again sometime... here's my number. Give me a buzz if you're not doing anything and want to listen to some more music... I've got some great new stuff!"
You don't need to be overly aggressive with him, just be honest and tell him you had fun. Maybe he just doesn't know that you enjoyed yourself.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
 hey there,
Sounds like he does like you! why else would he of talked to you till the early hours of the moring,
Be yourself also, as there is no point being with someone who cannot except you for who you are.
Also perhapse get your friend to find out if he is going to ask you out, subtly of coarse.
I'm sure things will pan out just the way you want them.
Good luck with it all. : D
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