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writes:my bf of 4 months just broke off with me he said he has reconciled with his ex please help can't get over him.
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reader, Lompie +, writes (4 February 2010):
Lompie is verified as being by the original poster of the question thnx so much 4 de answrs they brought relief.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): I have been there.Right now it hurts like h*** doesn't it?
There are a few things that would really help.Start by saying this as often to yourself.
1.I am a wonderful woman.I don't deserve to be second best for anyone
2.A guy who leaves one woman for the other,cannot be trusted MOST of the time
Now is the time to get that makeover,catch up on friends who you have not been in touch with,surprise mom with a visit,enjoy nature treks,sing at the top of your voice.You need to believe that being single is fun too.Being happy comes from within.It doesn't depend on anyone else.Join reading clubs,hobby classes,watch funny animal videos on you tube,go out with your gal pals,the list is endless.
Pride in small doses works wonders.You need to remember that he left you and that's that.Spare not a thought to him.When pride and self respect kicks in,the guy wouldn't even be there in your thoughts.Hang in there.He's not worth you in anyway at all. ~Mrs.Anon
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reader, sxcbabiegal  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 4 months is nothing, and the guy is stupid for going back to his ex after splitting up with her and then getting with you. Go out with your girlfriends or have a few girly sleepovers.. make sure you keep yourself busy a lot and your bound to get over him in no time. And just keep reminding yourself he's the one thats losing out.
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