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writes:how do i get over my best friends boyfriend?this guy is amazing, he has told me he has though about us but he loves my best friend too much, he doesn't know i like him but I'm sure he suspects it.my parents want me to go out with him but considering they don't like my best friend I'm not sure if they are telling me to like him to get back at her or to make me happy.i want to forget him but we are close friends, how do i get him off my mind?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): Simple. Cut him out of your life for now! Dont try and steal your mates boyfriend off her. If your a decent person, you will know why not to do this. Boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever.If you did steal your mates boyfriend, yeah you've gained your 'love' intrest, but you will loose a very good friend. And when you and your mates boy break up, you will want a shoulder to cry on, and your current best mate wont give you her shoulder.Sorry to be harsh, but I cant stand infedelity and stuff like this. The choice is yours, keep your friendship and let your feelings about this lad slide away, or go for it and loose a best friend.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (13 May 2007):
 Watch how happy he makes your friend and how happy she makes him. Do you really want to be the cause of wrecking that? Find another guy, any guy and ask him out on a date. Maybe it won't work out but doing your best to get out there will help get him off your mind. There's no point in drooling over someone you can't have when there are so many people you can.
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reader, AdamPayseno +, writes (13 May 2007):
 A wise owl once said..
'' You don't fall out of love with someone untill you fall in love with someone else. ''
Nobody wants to be alone, and the heart won't start moving on from someone untill it has somewhere to go.
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