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*izmo
writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost three years. We both went to college, and are now 4 hours apart. We will get to see each other just about every two weeks. Since we split for college (4 days ago) I have been going crazy, I just can't stand the time apart, I feel sad and lonely. How do I get over this? I've been away from her for two weeks before and didn't handle it totally. I just want to spend every second with her but can't. It's so bad sometimes it makes me physically sick. Why am I handeling it so bad? How do I get over it and better handle the time apart? Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, gizmo +, writes (23 August 2007):
gizmo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to clarify, we have been together for the past 3 years up till 4 days ago, nad now we are 4 1/2 hours apart.
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reader, gothghen +, writes (22 August 2007):
 well.? you sound like a loyal guy to me.. base on my observations, through my own experiences and others, i think you should just cool down.. dont take the time distance too seriously.. i mean c'mon now, dont you trust your girlfriend.? its been almost 3 years since you guys been together, spent time together, and now.? i really think its a challenge to see if you guuys are faithfull of sincere.? or even love each other.. i dont wanna judge you guys relationships, but i just wanna make sure that the girls worth having a boyfriend like you.. keep in mind that your not always gonna be with the one you love. =) being with the person you love doesnt really matter at all.. i mean, it does but not 100%.. keeping her in your heart what matters most., if you love her, you'd think about you guys future.. think that after all the sacrifices and time distance, will pay off some day.. you'll be able to give her everything., maybe even the world..=) loving someone is all about sacrificing..if there's no sacrifes, it aint love. its good being away from the one you love, why.? its coz when the time comes seeing her, you'll know that she's still special.. and you'll still know that your in love. =)
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