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writes: I think I am a happily married 41 y/o woman. My husband is attractive, caring and loving. We communicate openly about everything. One of my close friends has been having marriage troubles. She has admitted to having feelings for another man and has been emotionally involved with him. She temporarily separated from her husband. During this time, I started to empathise with her husband and I developed deeper feelings for him. She is seeking counselling to save her marriage but he is now unsure. I have always found him attractive but now I am constantly thinking about him. I try to make excuses to see him. Our children are best friends and play together on the weekends but I don't see alot of her husband.I feel like I am betraying my friend and my husband. I have not mentioned this to anybody and I'm trying to get him out of my thoughts!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 December 2005):
 Try harder...there are too many people involved here that you could possibly hurt very much. It's most likely just a crush and you'd regret taking any actions anyway. Just focus on your loving husband and children whenever your thoughts start to stray.
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