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writes:Hi, i've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and couldn't be happier. We spend everyday together and cant get enough of eachother. I seriously think he could be the one, and he's said the same to me. Problem is, none of my friends like him. And they have no reason because he's such a sweet guy. And because they dont like him i got angry and stopped talking to them. I havent seen my closest friends for 6 months, and even though they hate my boyfriend, i miss them so much, and i wanna get back in touch with them. But i'm afraid its too late. Help me!! X Reply to this Question
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reader, becka1270 +, writes (10 March 2010):
Recently my best friend was dating this guy who I and our friends hated, seriously I couldn't be in the same room as him. When she agreed to go out with him after I told her how I felt, I was so hurt and felt that she wanted this guy more than me. Your friends are probably feeling this way, My friend didn't get why I didn't like him because she was really into him and was thinking that we just were being unfair, talk to your friends... they were probably hurt further when you had an argument, if this guy really is what you think he is then great I'm happy for you but if your friends mean less to you than him... I know how they are feeling... but I'm sure that if you talk to them it will be fine :) as the saying go 'mates before dates' :) I hope you get them back xxx :) B xxx
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reader, Alj +, writes (10 March 2010):
just get in touch and say your sorry about getting angry but you really like this guy! And ask them to support you cuz if you ever were to break up you would need friends like them by your side! Obviously it will be hard for them to forgive you as they probably feel yoj have chosen him over them! But its worth a try! Good luck =]
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reader, Kristabella006 +, writes (10 March 2010):
Hey.
It is never too late to get back in touch with your friends. Seriously, if they really are your friends they will want to talk to you. Send them all an email on Facebook, or Text them. Saying something like hey guys, you want to meet up next week for a coffee? Or a drink? You haven't seen them in ages, and feel really bad for it and would love to see how everyone is.
I am 99% positive they wont reject you.
Why don't you dig a little deeper, find out why they dont like your boyfriend.. talk about it. It's the best way
Hope it all goes well
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