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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now. The only problem that I have with him is that he never seem able to plan anything ahead. I would ask him if he has plan for the weekend? he would tell me no but he wouldn't tell me that we would go out until the next day. I couldn't plan anything and I would have to wait for his call. This is driving me nut, what should I do to fix this problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, nitros  +, writes (21 December 2008):
 Thats a tuff one, some people live in the now and some constanlty think 10 steps ahead, I happen to be one of those who think ahead, my best advice would be just be just say something like would you like to go to the movies? "yes" Ok well go next weekend or whatever. Or you could always sit him down and discuss how you feel, he probably doesnt even notice hes driving you nuts, just let him know. Good luck :)
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reader, Plz Remember M3 +, writes (21 December 2008):
I had this problem with my boyfriend for like years. Eventually he grew out of it but I am so obsessively organized I wanted to kill him sometimes. What I told my boyfriend was basically that I couldn't live my life around his spontaneous schedule so if he really wanted to see me he could work himself into my schedule because it was impossible for me to work it into mine. It was tough for a few weeks cause I didnt see him as much but he got the picture and I found out he really loved me.
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