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*ovebaby126
writes:We have been dating for awhile and we tend to get in fights just i feel like its my fault when we get mad at each other he tries to take the blame and never listens to me. how do i get him to stop fighting with me so much? Reply to this Question
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reader, curious0hot +, writes (4 February 2010):
 The point isn't that you "fight". It's what you fight about that has to be resolved/taken care of.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 it takes two to fight, so maybe you need to listen to him too and not always be in the right, ...even if you want the right to be the one who is wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): hun just from experience he's not for you. You still have a whole life a head of you. And you don't need someone that trys to control you and thats all it is.
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reader, HIKela +, writes (4 February 2010):
You can never change another person without changing yourself first. It will take time for him to understand until you can show him that you understand. If you truly love him, I would suggest not saying anything in a situation... if he keeps going on and on... all you have to do is say "ok" or go along with it EVEN THOUGH you know you are right. If you feel that it is your fault than treat it that way... apologize to him and if he tries to take the blame than go along with it.
I'm not a professional advice-giver although I had the same situation with my girlfriend. Now things are better between us because she understands now that I understand its not a healthy relationship unless we both understand.
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