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writes:I really like this guy, and i think he likes me too. But there is always a possibility that he doesn't. So I don't want to make the first move and suggest meeting up outside of school, in case he rejects me. Also I have this thing where the guy has to make the first move. It's just right isn't it? How do I get him to make the first move, or find out if he even likes me without getting humiliated?thanksxxxxxxxxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, Mymy  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I can completely understand why you feel like a guy should make the first move; I used to think the same thing but I made the first move on a guy at a ball and we're now going out...I went with my instincts and it turned out I was right. The one thing I would advise against is trying to find out if he likes you through his friends, as that very rarely works out because the guy might find it a bit immature. Lovesalias' advice is pretty sound too, it's not too forward but it'll let him know. Good luck!
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reader, lovesalias  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Its o.k. for girls to make the first move...guys actually like that. You have to be confident with yourself. Know your worth and exude confidence in your everyday dealings. When you talk to this boy touch his arm with yours and see how he reacts if he pulls away then it is safe to say you are just "friends" If his arm lingers as long as your I would say its a green light. People don't like other people in their personal space unless they are into you. Say little clever things to him like, "I know that you are into me and would like to meet up after school some time!" Then be quite give him a beautiful smile and wait to see what he will say. If he says not really then say, "too bad, you don't know what your missing!" Give him a wink and walk away...this way you don't have to feel humiliated. I am sure you are an attractive, smart young lady that any guy would be lucky to have. Don't let me intimidate you. You are strong and worthy of any mans affection that you choose. Good Luck I hope this helps!
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